05.12.07
Happy Mother’s Day
Above is the card I made for my mom this Mother’s Day.
I talked to my mom on the phone this Saturday morning - like I always do each and every Saturday morning. That is our designated time for each other. We now live a great distance from each other - she in Kentucky and me in Idaho. We have less than a year before she moves back to Idaho, but still Saturday mornings have always been our talking time. Of course we talk other times during the week but since we both get up before the crack of dawn (yes, even on the weekends) this is our time before our households are buzzing.
It’s been challenging and a little more difficult since she left Idaho over a year ago. One of the challenges has been to be more of a planner - like I have to remember more than one week in advance of special occasions like her birthday, Mother’s Day, etc because I have to get to the post office and can’t just go pick up then deliver on the special day.
While talking this morning she said her package had arrived. I put a great deal of thought in this purchase and it stirred many memories of her and my dad. I sent her a bottle of her favorite perfume - Shalimar. My dad always used to buy this for her - it was and on very special occasions is still her signature. I can always tell when she is around - the scent and aroma. We are also approaching the 15 year mark of my Dad’s passing (he passed quickly on Memorial Day weekend 1992).
I fondly remember my four younger brothers and me as children - doing so many things as a family - celebrating, helping each other, camping, attending each other’s sports events, and yes, even the sibling quarels. I usually prevailed being the oldest and only girl.
My parents were so happy to find out that I was having my first child in 1983. They prayed, wished, and prayed some more that I would have a daughter. To bring me the same challenges (and joys) I supposedly gave my parents in raising me. I have been doubly blessed with two girls, Courtney 23 and Carly 16.
I appreciate the role model my mother demonstrated through thick and thin. When we were children often things were very lean. I know she sacrificed and was very thrifty so she could save the money needed for each of our activities - the costs of having 5 children. I thank my mother and publically acknowledge my love and sincere appreciation for all she has done for me, my four brothers and each of our families. I love you mom.
Details for the card. Stamped script background with SU in sage. Then placed the Heidi Swapp mask (bird and branch) over the script and used Ranger Adirondack Spray Wash Espresso to cover, gently and quickly lifted the mask and let dry. Once dry used Fancy Pants “Pollen Dust” flourish stamp in the Essential Glue pad, sprinkled with some of that new Martha Stewart glitter - love it! Tied a simple sage ribbon and matted onto sage. I really like the look and feel of this card.
Thanks for letting me ramble and looking. I will be enjoying my Mother’s Day. Lila

Fran McCllintock said,
05.12.07 at 8:30 pm
I love this card - I’m really into birds these days and this card does it for me. My mom was also into Shalimar and my dad always gave it to her as your’s did and she too only wore it for special occasions. I still love that smell. My dad too is deceased - he died in 1975 - and my mom has been in a nursing home for the last 12 years. She is 92 and her mind is bad, but she still knows me and her care takers. She & I always talked on weekends like you and your mom - enjoy those talks - they will end way too soon. Even after 12 years I still want to pick up the phone and tell my mom all the events of our lives. Happy Mother’s Day!
Kim Ross (StampingSpud) said,
05.13.07 at 6:46 am
Lovely card, Lila! My day to call home was Sunday after I moved away from home. I called mom & dad every week until mom passed in 2001. Happy Mother’s Day!
jacksonbelle said,
05.13.07 at 8:31 am
OOOH, this is just gorgeous! I love the colors, love it!: )
Stamper Gail said,
05.13.07 at 11:01 pm
Lovely card Lila and a wonderful story to share. Love her up because one day she will no longer be here. I lost my mom 11 years ago and even though she had more than one favorite perfume, you always knew when she was around because she always smelled so nice. I live in her home now and can still sometimes catch a scent of her. I like to think that she is paying me a visit. We share something in common Lila, my dad also passed away on Memorial Weekend, but he was only 45 and this was 30 years ago. Still hard to this day though nevertheless.
Julee T. (Shadowcatcher) said,
05.14.07 at 6:40 am
A beautiful card and such a touching post. Sounds like you thought of the perfect gift. Thanks for sharing your beautiful and personal thoughts.
Courtney said,
05.15.07 at 10:15 pm
I miss you mom!!
jbalcer said,
05.21.07 at 11:19 am
Lila, this is just AMAZING. Love your card, love the story. HUGS!
Leticia said,
05.30.07 at 8:21 pm
The card is beautiful. But the words about your mother are so much more beautiful! All mothers should be so loved.